It’s a broad topic to approach, we know, but one we won’t shy away from! You see, in the escorting industry, you tend to learn a little about men, women, attraction and desire, so we do know what we’re talking about.
Let it be said here and now that women want to be approached and spoken to. In much the same way as you do, of course!
The first thing you need to know is that women are not the enemy. Many men approach this so-called difficult task of talking to women, believing that these creatures are something to be conquered and that they will make a mockery out of any attempts to pick them up. If you have these negative thoughts and visions, you need to work on those first.
If the woman you want to speak to is scowling at you from across the room when you look, don’t approach her. There’s a lot of common sense to this: just because you’ve been booking escorts and they’re always nice to you, it doesn’t mean all women will be!
What women want, and what our ladies wish, is for you to be yourself. If you’re a nice person, ladies will be attracted to you. It makes sense. It’s mostly about confidence; once you’ve made the first move and concentrated on being yourself, you’ll be amazed at the results.
Please don’t talk about yourself; talk about her. Start with a compliment, perhaps. Make sure you find her attractive, though; don’t just pretend to find her attractive. The majority of intelligent women will know straight away when you’re feeding them a line, so it’s not worth your trouble.
If she’s only interested in what you do and how much money you have, say what you like, because in our opinion she’s not worth your trouble. It’s a relationship that won’t work out. At least escorts don’t pretend to be anything other than what they are! They charge money to spend time with you, and you choose to pay them. It’s a great business and a business that’s mutual.
